{"id":1294,"date":"2011-06-28T20:59:56","date_gmt":"2011-06-29T00:59:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/?p=1294"},"modified":"2011-06-28T20:59:56","modified_gmt":"2011-06-29T00:59:56","slug":"familyresentmentsintroductions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/2011\/06\/28\/familyresentmentsintroductions\/","title":{"rendered":"Family\/Resentments\/Introductions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Went to see the family this past weekend. And I do mean the whole family &#8211; it was my one surviving grandmother&#8217;s 90th birthday, and most of the cousins and all the aunts &#038; uncles were there. Was good to see people, but getting stuck in traffic set off a <em>lot<\/em> of resentment I&#8217;ve been holding in with regard to dealing with my family. It boils down to the fact that I always go see them, they never come up here to visit. Big huge city full of free museums, great restaurants, and a successful attorney willing to buy a lot of good meals, and my parents have been up exactly once, when I made them come get me and drag me to a triathlon back in 2006. Ugh. So, yeah, I was screaming at traffic and family and generally getting a lot of that out of my system while in the car. <\/p>\n<p>So of course I&#8217;m dragging the boy down to meet them this upcoming weekend. Ha. At least, I think I am. We&#8217;re making tentative plans to go down and visit the beach, since the parentals make for a convenient free place to stay down near Va Beach. And since I&#8217;d like them to meet him, and he couldn&#8217;t come down this past weekend (trial by fire, that would&#8217;ve been!) because he was up visiting his own family in another long planned trip. Final details to be planned out, but it&#8217;s been cleared with the parentals, so it&#8217;s more likely than not. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Went to see the family this past weekend. And I do mean the whole family &#8211; it was my one surviving grandmother&#8217;s 90th birthday, and most of the cousins and all the aunts &#038; uncles were there. Was good to see people, but getting stuck in traffic set off a lot of resentment I&#8217;ve been [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[97,71,83,65,48],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adult","category-annoyances","category-dating","category-driving","category-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1294"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1294\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1295,"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1294\/revisions\/1295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.countfour.org\/legalmoose\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}